She Comes First [audiobook]

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner is an audiobook that addresses the common gap in understanding female sexuality among men. It highlights that many men are more knowledgeable about cars than about female anatomy, particularly the clitoris.

Kerner, a clinical sexologist, emphasizes that oral sex should not be considered an optional part of foreplay but rather as an essential component of sexual intimacy, referred to as "coreplay." The book serves as a comprehensive guide to female pleasure, providing numerous techniques and step-by-step instructions aimed at enhancing sexual satisfaction for women. The content promotes a new philosophy of sexual intimacy that encourages mutual fulfillment and emphasizes the importance of understanding and satisfying a partner's needs. Ultimately, it inspires men to prioritize their partner’s pleasure, echoing the sentiment that intimate encounters should be frequent and executed with skill.